Tell him you don’t have enough money to pay some of the bills. Tell him your cable / satellite has to go or the internet has to go because you just can’t afford it. lol. And do it. Cut it off. Men & their electronics. That might make a light bulb go off in his head & make him realize your having a tough time.

Don’t pay the bills, put the money to the side and allow him to see that the lights are about to get cut off. Then he will see that sitting on the computer all day won’t get the bills paid.

The way to a man’s heart (& often his brain) is said to be through his stomach.
Try giving him jam & bread for a while! (or similar)
Regards UK